You will find multitudes of relational advice on the internet, in libraries, bookstores, and on television. It seems that everyone wants to tell you how to have a healthy successful relationship that is filled with true love or how to restore the remaining fragments of the bond you once cherished. There is a lot of good advice available to you and there is also some that will hamper your efforts.
For understanding purposes, take the time to ponder the following insightful question:
How can one understand others until one understands oneself?
The answers to all questions should first be sought out by seeking the source. Ultimately where does love come from? Where is the root of love? If you truly want to know how to have a harmony filled, long lasting successful relationship then wouldn’t you want to find the origin of relationships, the real author of love? If so, then what’s stopping you? Often times people wander around looking for love in all the wrong places and they end up getting hurt and used by others. If your true desire is to build a relationship with a foundation that will stand in love, seek out the creator. Start by beginning or reconciling your relationship with the Heavenly Father, for that is where everything began. How can anyone expect to have a healthy loving relationship with others unless they first have one with the originator? The initial answer is much closer than many might think, it’s so easy, just look up! He is waiting for you with open arms.
Now if you are still considering trying to do things "your way", you might ask yourself at some point, "how well has that been working for me"? Just know that Gods love is unfailing, He will never leave your or forsake you, you can depend on God to meet all your needs. Is there anybody you can personally mention, in all honesty, that has been that way in your life? I don’t think you will find any human capable of perfect love, but maybe that is what everyone is continuing to search for? God is the one that spoke you into existence just to have a meaningful love relationship with you. Does this mean that reaching out to him that all your problems will magically go away, no. It takes time to resolve issues that took time to arise in conflict, but the reference remains with the mastermind. Gods many promises to you are filled up in the bible, He says "I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me."
Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have get understanding. Proverbs 4:7
By the grace of God I am what I am. 1 Corinthians 15:10
An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips. Proverbs 24:25
We all want to be loved, and we have a desire to love others even if it’s not apparent on the surface. Sometimes our love gets stuck from the happenings of life, from the pains, hurts, and losses. Our Father wants to bring us the comforting love our souls desire.
In conclusion fully realize that nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, life can be difficult sometimes. Just know that there is hope, there is a way, you only need to take the initial step and He will direct your paths. God will show you the greatest love possible, He will teach you what love is, what it means to love, how to find real loving people and give you the guidance to fulfill meaningful, successful, true love relationships in your life.