Love making is something special that two people share in holy matrimony. Love is the feelings you outwardly express to your spouse or significant other. Sexual intimacy is meant to be shared by two people who love one another in the context of marriage. Why? Because love making is the deepest form of sharing between two people, and because there is an emotional bond that takes place when two people are intimate with each other. This is also why so many women feel used afterward, they have given up their self respect for a temporary satisfaction. Why do so many relationships fail? Because people build their foundations based on the wrongs things, often that foundation is built on sex alone. When sex fails there is nothing for them to fall back on. Couples do not spend enough time building a foundation of friendship, where they learn how to communicate and love each other. Far too many people are only focused on themselves, on what they want and desire. Real love is not self-seeking, a true love outwardly gives. The right man will say I love you with a ring, other men will say I love you because they want something. There is a difference between sexual relations, (affairs), with several partners and the true passion of love making. In other words, sexual activity without love is hollow and within this emptiness there are significant emotional ramifications.
Society and it's worldly views want to sell you on sex, because sex sells, (in so many ways). Society teaches sex appeal, it stresses values of outward sexual appearance. Many women feel they need to have large breasts to attract men, so they get breast implants. The problem with that is the kind of men that they will attract to themselves. They are generally the kind of men who will use them for their own sexual gratification. Think of how many things that companies sell that are just related to sex. Think of all the commercials you see that are of sexual nature. People are being brainwashed and told that they should be "stimulating their sexuality". They want to arouse the sexiest lustful physical nature in people so they can make more money. Then they use the distorted expression, "love making", when in reality it's lust making, it does not have anything to do with love.
A healthy relationship begins with those who are looking for meaningful love. Within the context of a enriched marriage relationship is the bond of making love. If you truly want fulfilling love making experiences, then begin by dressing up your minds, not by taking off your clothes.
We hope the ideas in this love making article will improve your ability to successfully find and be in healthy relationships. We suggest reading
Safe Dating Ideas, Fashions For Dating Success, Making Character A Priority,
Making The Most Of Your Desires, and The Best Reasons For Marriage.